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17May/120

Cooking In The Kitchen With A Hung, Hairy Beast

Cooking In The Kitchen With A Hung, Hairy Beast. No, it’s not the title of a new show on The Food Network. Nor is it a by-product of an animated Disney movie, though Belle must have liked something other than the fine dining and dancing! We’ve titled this week’s scene in such a way to show you that all you need to spice up your sex life is to look at the mundane and daily rote in a creative fashion. Not unlike Alessio Romero, whipping his cream in the kitchen while Dirk Caber does the dirty job of cleaning dishes. And what better way to try a new recipe than by adding a bit of fun and play? WHAP! goes the cream on Dirk’s chest after he samples Alessio’s wrist action. That’s where the fun begins. The blowjobs fly back and forth with deep throat cock sucking, jerking off, and hot rimming action on the kitchen counters. To say nothing of the fucking! Let’s just say it’s a good thing those counters are nice and sturdy to support the weight of two grown men going at each other like rutting pigs. And remember what good ‘old Julia — may she rest in her heavenly kitchen — used to say. You’re the only one in the kitchen so no one needs to know what goes on. Forgive our paraphrasing. It was as close as we could get.

Alessio Romero and Dirk Caber suck, rim, then fuck each other in the kitchen

17May/120

The Summer Of Summer – Donna Summer Dead at 63

I feel I need to write a blog entry following the death of Donna Summer because her music was so influential to my coming out. It was an important time for many reasons, and this personal story will help illuminate that period.

I came out during the summer of 1975 between Sophomore and Junior years in college, and by “coming out” that meant going to gay disco bars (to meet men). Prior to coming out I was a fan of punk rock, but liking disco was synonymous with being gay, so I didn’t have much choice.

I had just moved into my new apartment for Junior year and I had been named Assistant Music Director at the college radio station. I had also just purchased the first consumer grade DJ mixer and set it up in my new apartment for the first time (with two unmatched belt drive turntables). One of my closest gay friends, Chuck, came over to see my new apartment and listen to the new records I brought over from the radio station to review. Chuck was one of my gay mentors because I was very naive about the gay world. The gay community as we know it was brand new and totally underground, so you needed someone to fill you in.

Donna Summer Giorgio Moroder

Donna Summer and Producer Giorgio Moroder

Going through the pile of records, Chuck pulled a couple choices that, from that moment on, would influence the rest of my life. In that one batch were the first offerings from:

-Village People
-Ramones
-Sylvester
-Giorgio Moroder
-Donna Summer

I could write at length about each of those names, but for now let’s concentrate on Donna Summer and Giorgio Moroder. It was the genius of Giorgio Moroder as producer that separated Donna Summer from every other R&B diva. The electronic sounds and beats he created had never been heard before and with the addition of a powerful black female voice, “I Feel Love” stood out from everything else played in the gay disco. It was not Motown, it was not horn-influenced “The Sound of Philadelphia”, it was not radio-influenced music from NY or LA. It was a mythical “European” sound and ultra modern, and at over 7 minutes in length, it was not meant for radio.

The culture was still trying to figure out “what” disco was. The concept of two records overlapping and blending into each other for more than a few seconds had only been explored for a couple of years. People still danced to juke boxes in many gay bars, and buying a dedicated sound system and hiring a DJ was only starting to become a trend. Unbelievable as it sounds, “disco” records were not played on the radio because they were often up to 20 minutes in length and didn’t fit either the Top 40 radio nor the rock and roll format of “progressive radio” on FM.

When a Donna Summer song was played in a gay disco during that summer, it was instantly recognizable and the boys all moved to the dancefloor in unison. She was our diva and everyone equated Donna Summer with anything (and everything) gay.

In 1979 I was a DJ in a gay bar in Detroit called The Gas Station that was as underground as you could possibly get. You entered through an alley, there were no windows and there was no sign on the door. Remarkably, though, early one Friday night a handsome yuppie introduced himself as a record company rep and brought me a 12″ record of “Enough Is Enough” by Donna Summer and Barbra Streisand. Donna AND Barbra singing a duet???!!! Oh, my queer god, I had died and gone to gay heaven! Though it’s too vocal-heavy to be considered a definitive “disco” record, it is no doubt an important classic that blew us all away for an entire season. The slow build to the crescendo still gives me chills.

Fast forward to Halloween 1995 and I was the Entertainment chair for the Sisters’ huge outdoor party for 100,000 people. I chose “Enough Is Enough” as the finale with two powerful divas (Paul Anelli and Richie Waits) to sing it live with fireworks blowing off at the end. It was the last Halloween the Sisters produced and a fitting end to that 5 year run.

After that nostalgic disco break, we return you to our regularly scheduled gay porn programming…

11May/120

Salon de Lavende

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Salon de Lavende is Lavender Lounge in French. Everything sounds classier in French.

10May/120

How About A Piece Of Tasty South African Beef For Lunch?

While Garrick Olsen was visiting San Francisco from South Africa, the taste blond treat came knocking on our door. He wanted to know if we’d film him since he wanted to experience what it was like to do a porno. We didn’t have anything going on at the time so we decided to at least schedule a shoot with him. When we saw the fat, succulent piece of uncut meat he’d been blessed with we were glad we’d said yes! Mind you, he was a bit nervous despite the fact that he came looking for us. Still, we’ve worked with virgin pornsters before so we did the best we could to make him feel comfortable, including leaving the room for a bit while he perused a dirty magazine and took a hit of poppers. Why we were reminded of a terrific cut of meat, we’ll never know. But we were salivating and suddenly craved filet mignon with a good glass of South African wine!

South African Garrick Olsen strokes his fat, uncut dick during a photo shoot

3May/120

Hairy Top Nick Moretti Ropes Up Chad Brock

What was that expression about being a man and laying down childish games? You know what we say to that? Phooey! Yeah, alright. That was kinda childish, wasn’t it? How about fuck off? We only say that because there’s one game Chad Brock hasn’t outgrown. Getting roped and tied. Definitely a left-over from his Cowboy & Indian days! Now, as an adult, he can take things to the next level and find out what happens after the last knot is tied. Only, instead of an Indian, it’s with hairy muscled top dad Nick Moretti. The masculine fucker teaches Chad a thing or two about getting spanked and having his cock and balls tortured with a flogger. Strangely, though, we think Chad is only playing innocent. He just looks too damn comfortable in that sling. Giddy-up, baby!

hairy masculine top nick moretti and chad brock explore bdsm, cbt, then fuck in a sling

1May/120

We’re All Sharon Needles

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Ru Paul really pissed me off last week. With all the anticipation for the season finale destroyed by making us wait another week to announce the winner, I was ready to punch her eyelashed lights out. But I have to give Ru Paul credit for making the show better every season and for single-handedly saving the Logo Network. (No other shows on Logo are even watchable.)

As you all know by now, Sharon Needles was crowned the winner last night, and though it was a close race, she’s clearly the right choice. Ru Paul and the producers of the show, World Of Wonder, come from the New York underground club kid scene. Sharon Needles is the one closest to that aesthetic.

At the end of last week’s show, I thought that Chad Michaels might have a shot. But he didn’t actually win many weekly challenges and always kinda stayed under the radar. It’s called understated elegance but that doesn’t necessarily translate to a crown. Chad Michaels was a class act the whole time, didn’t make one mistake, always had a variety of very different looks (which actually worked against him), but at the end of the day, he didn’t fit into Ru Paul’s crowd.

Phi Phi also came from a different peer group. His form of drag is more the gowns-and-crowns variety, the mainstay of the girls who enter pageants. Chad Michaels is more like a Vegas act or the one-man show tradition of Jim Bailey or Charles Pierce. Neither would make any waves in the New York club scene where Ru Paul cut his teeth.

Latrice Fucking Royale  was awarded Miss Congeniality, which I don’t recall them ever offering as an award before, but she truly deserved it. Latrice was the Den Mother and the voice of reason throughout the season. Early in the season, I thought she might win, but she fell short in some areas. But she, too, comes from a different drag tradition, and girls from the South have a different approach to drag. Gay bars in the South actually present entertainment and put on a show, and a few of the drag queens can actually make a living doing it. It’s quite different than the drag scene in New York, LA or San Francisco.

Sharon Needles, though hailing from Pittsburgh, PA, comes from a club kid tradition that was influenced by people like Michael Alig and the New York club scene. It makes sense that Ru would choose someone to represent “the business” Ru Paul has created. Besides having the look, Sharon Needles has a quick wit, he’s honest, and extremely talented in ways that always surprise. Sharon Needles is not the first drag queen to do a goth look, but he does it really well.

1May/120

Editing New Scenes

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I have been editing a bunch of new porn scenes. When I finish the latest batch, I will have enough backlog for weekly updates through the middle of August. But I am always itching to shoot more! I love shooting porn and there is plenty of guys I am dying to work with, both new recruits and return offenders.

Last night I worked until 11:45 pm on a scene that involved a twisted preacher molesting a leather boy in a hood chained to a kneeler. The scene went so well, it was the easiest editing job I’ve ever done. (I must be getting better at shooting this stuff!)

Dirk Caber played the sadistic krazy kristian and he had all the right dialogue to play the character. He was really believable! I dressed him up in a gray suit and tie, but OMG, when the clothes started coming off you could really appreciate his big, beefy and hairy body. Just look at the V-shaped chest on him! There was one point when Blake Oscar (the bottom boy in the scene) told me shoot from his view underneath because Dirk looked “so fucking imposing from that angle”. He was right.

This scene won’t be on the site for a while, but there is plenty of hot, kinky action available right now at Lavender Lounge.

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26Apr/120

Ethan Ayers Surprises Boyfriend With A Fist Up His Ass

It’s hard enough making a success out of any relationship when you and your boyfriend live together. It’s harder still when you’re going the long-distance route. Still, it obviously works for some, like Blake Oscar and Ethan Ayers. We knew Ethan was in town for a few days and were surprised when Blake contacted us to see if we’d be interested in documenting their kinky sex. Who the hell are we to say no? It was obvious Blake was just as excited as we were when Ethan guided him blindfolded into the dungeon. What followed was an unscripted and unrehearsed session with Blake chained up and Ethan rimming his hot ass. With plenty of cock sucking and throat fucking, the two wound up in a 69. Ethan pounded the hell out of Blake before propping him up in the sling. But there was an unexpected twist when Ethan straddled Blake, sat down on his cock, and started riding the bearded stud. And then came the final twist. Literally. Ethan worked his fist inside Blake’s hole, stretching him open and pushing him to the edge as he came with a huge load. Who knows? Maybe absence DOES make the heart grow fonder. If nothing else, Ethan’s absence definitely made Blake’s hole hungrier!

Flip Fucking Boyfriends Ethan Ayers and Blake Oscar

19Apr/120

Tattooed Rough Stud Reveals Huge Suckable Cock Then Jerks Off

When we set up a photo shoot we sometimes don’t know what to expect. Is the model going to be full of himself? Is he going to be a prima donna and think he’s all that and the bag of chips when he really isn’t? So far, we’ve been lucky. Every once in a while, however, you get a REALLY huge surprise. It came to us in the form of a rough and tumble, tattooed hottie with a bit of a cocky attitude and a swagger. And with good reason. Jacob Slader teased us and whet our appetites with his confidence and sexual bravado. We loved his enormous belt buckle with the word FUCK boldly emblazoned. But the best thing about working with Jacob? Aside from his sweet disposition and intelligent conversation, that is. His cock. We hadn’t seen it before and when he whipped that big piece of meat out and started playing with it, it was all we could to keep from dropping to the floor, crawling towards him like a dog and take him down to the balls. Maybe next time.

Tattooed Ruffian Hunk Jacob Slader Strokes Fat, Suckable Cock

12Apr/120

Bearded Leather Dad Lance Navarro Fucked In Sling By 19-Year-Old Derek Bronson

When it comes to a good mindfuck, very little is as intoxicating as kink, fetish, or the taboo. Then again, that which is different is oftentimes the most arousing. Which is why at Lavender Lounge we pride ourselves in being porn different. With that in mind, and knowing how popular the Daddy/Son scene can be, check out Lance Navarro and 19-year-old blue-eyed blond twink Derek Bronson. He might be young and look innocent but appearances can be so deceiving. This is one young man with a pervy mind and twisted soul. And we love him for that as he’s spanked, flogged, and rimmed. He’s already an accomplished cocksucker, deep throat big uncut cock like it’s going out of style. Not that Lance minds. He loves a good blowjob just as much as he enjoys giving them. On the sling, however, it’s a different matter. Derek gets up there but it’s Daddy Lance who gets in the end. Turns out Derek’s an accomplished fucker, too! Who knew?

19-Year-Old Derek Bronson Fucks Bearded Leather Dad Lance Navarro In Sling

5Apr/120

Sweet Ginger Charles Strokes Fat Dick With A Hot Creamy Finish

Have a thing for redheads, or as they say in the UK, gingers? Does the thought of a naked Ronald Weasley send you into a frenzy? Yeah, we understand. Lots of guys like the usually freckled sweet guy with flaming red hair. Sadly, there aren’t enough of them around doing porn so when our friend called to say we had one hour to set up for a photo shoot, we jumped at the chance. We might have been unprepared but we wanted to capture this sweet young man who was, quite literally, fresh off the bus. Charming, innocent, and playful, Charles was more than willing to do pretty much anything we asked of him. And after working with him, we began to understand why our friend had such a fetish for his ginger boys.

Redhead Charles Strokes Fat Cut Cock

4Apr/120

Review At Gay Demon

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Lavender Lounge got a review at a very important website called Gay Demon. We lost points because the re-vamped site is still new, but overall they wrote some very good things about Lavender Lounge.

Site owner and producer Mark Kliem wanted to create something a little different, and he employs a simple formula for making what he calls “extra smoking hot” videos: the models choose their own scene partners – another porn star, a fuck buddy, a boyfriend, or someone trying to break into the business – he directs as little as possible, allowing the actors to play much like they would at home in their bedrooms and playrooms; finally, they add something quirky or kinky.

The action is largely suck and fuck fare with props and costumes, i.e. leather chaps and harnesses; and the kinky stuff includes flogging, fisting, sling play, saran wrap, blindfolds, cock docking, spanking, and dildo sex. But this isn’t a hardcore BDSM site, think of it as if you and you partner decided to explore a daddy / boy scene, do a little heavy ass play, or put on some gear and force feed your cock to your lover and spank his ass while you fuck him.

Lavender Lounge is new in its current format, but the site’s owner has done a good job of creating hot and intriguing content with a twist. While the sex play is on the kinky side, it’s not over-the-top hardcore or severe – think of playful scene play. Lavender Lounge’s content is well produced, the site is organized and easy to navigate, the models are mostly hot men I’d bed down in a hot minute, and the sex is pretty smoking. What else can you ask for? Regular updates, but they’re working on that, so with time the site will grow, but even now with its bonus offering of videos and hundreds more in the bonus sites, Lavender Lounge is worth visiting and checking out.

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19Mar/121

Dirty Talk In Porn


What do you think about dirty talk in porn? Is it a turn-on or turn-off?

As they say, we learn how to have sex from watching porn, so I think there was an entire generation of gay men taught to sound like Jeff Stryker. Jeff Stryker’s banter was so forced and phony that it instantly became campy fun to imitate his “Suck on that big dick, yeah, suck that dick…” ad infinitum.

In my research of vintage gay porn, I was recently reminded that there was a period when porn films were shot without sound, primarily for peep show booths, but when they needed to show them in theaters or for later release on video, they added soundtracks with music and dialogue in post production. THAT period really turned people off to the idea of dirty talk in porn because the voice over actors in them were so bad. They merely rambled on and on with pseudo-sexual nonsense and no script even if the mouths on screen weren’t moving.

After being permanently scarred by the Jeff Stryker-isms in porn, I generally discourage models from too much chatting during a scene if it starts to sound fake. However, having worked with Conner Habib, he apparently likes dirty talk and it just comes naturally for him, so I encourage it. Against my usual prejudices as a film maker, I think it actually works for him. Watch this trailer with Conner Habib and Preston Steel leave your comments.

28Feb/120

More Editing, More Updates

Lavender LoungeLast week I barely made the deadline to deliver new scenes to maintain our weekly updates on LavenderLounge.com. Whew. Now I have 4 more weeks to get the next batch to them.

I am currently editing scenes that will debut around the end of March through the month of April. It would be easy to blog about scenes that are currently on my mind, but that would potentially piss off a reader that gets all hot and bothered about a scene they can’t see yet. So I am left with leaving vague references to tease you while going back to heavy promote scenes I haven’t looked at since the summer. (I should probably do writing in advance, too, but that would make too much sense…)

I finished editing a nice solo scene last night and really spent a lot of time on the 2 minute trailer. It will integrate video with still photos that were taken at the same time. It’s going to be really nice, and best of all, it will be softcore enough for Facebook and YouTube. Hopefully, that will get more eyeballs to see it.

While I am editing scenes for the website, I also have a new plan for releasing DVDs of the same material, too. I am so glad that I am now able to clear the decks of superfluous tasks and just concentrate on MY content and MY projects. You’re gonna love it, too.

23Feb/120

Spencer Reed Chains, Blindfolds, Spanks And Fucks Conner Habib

Chained and blindfolded in the dungeon, Conner Habib is unaware of how much time has passed since Spencer Reed strung him up. All we see is his mounting frustration. Suddenly, a booted Spencer approaches with a leather strap in hand to inspect Conner. The bearded muscleman starts giving Conner’s round, perky ass a good spanking as Conner moans with delight. They go on for close to 10 minutes, despite the fact that the next day, Conner’s ass was still bruised. But we digress. After the chains are removed, Conner is still blindfolded and begging to suck his controlling Master’s big dick. But Spencer doesn’t give it up just like that. If Conner wants cock he’s going to have to work for it. The submissive had an infectious enthusiasm however and soon Spencer finds himself on his knees blowing the jockstrapped young stud before turning him around and rimming his ass. Without even bothering to set up the sling, Spencer works his cock deep inside Conner, who’s buttcheeks are still bright red from the previous spanking. After some energetic thrusting and pumping, we wind up setting the sling up, if only to truly get an appreciation for the hairy beasts going at it and Spencer’s dick plowing Conner’s incredibly hungry ass. Eventually, though we with they’d never stop, both muscle cubs reward us with plumes of cum that spews straight up into the air.

Chained, Blindfolded Conner Habib Spanked Then Fucked By Spencer Reed

23Feb/120

Good Review From Lust Puppy

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I never heard of a site called Lust Puppy before, but while checking my stats, I clicked on a link and found they reviewed Lavender Lounge this week. They gave it a 90% rating!

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There are some younger guys in here, many amateur looking men, first-timers, and then more assured, muscular, tattooed and tough hunks who you might well find down at the local leather club on a Saturday night. The neat thing about the models is that they are varied and this variety, combined with the variety of the action, makes the Lavender Lounge a neat place to be if you don’t want to get stuck with just one ‘kind’ of movie, or model.

22Feb/120

New Prop For New Scenes

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Yesterday I visited my local leather emporium, Mr. S. Leather to buy a new prop. I just wanted something new for a new scene I am shooting tomorrow. I decided on a neoprene hood. It has a zipper up the back (“Zips up the back, no bones!”) with the mouth open for cock sucking. Currently, there are no eye holes, but I figured if I decided we need them at some point, it’s easy to cut holes, then get a set of blinders if need be.

The photo above is not one of mine, but that’s Josh West on the left, who has worked for Lavender Lounge a few times.

I have some twisted ideas for the next couple shoots, and I am really looking forward to a couple scenes coming up with guys coming into town.

16Feb/120

Roleplaying Daddy/Son Duo Nick Moretti and Blue Bailey Have Sweaty Sex

For whatever reason, daddy/son scenes have always been popular. Our job is not to question why, though. Our job is to document the hot pairings. For this scene we have a unique duo, Nick Moretti and Blue Bailey. In real life, they’re good friends and sometime fuck buddies, though each has an open-minded and understanding partner. In fact, the four of them go out together from time to time. Nick, with his gorilla-like body hair, extensive tattoos and really big, curved dick contrasts beautifully with adorable, tender and oh-so-pliable Blue. Despite the young man’s youth, it soon becomes evident he’s extremely experienced in taking big dick and getting fucked. One look at his face when Nick slides into the waiting fuckhole and you’ll understand what we mean. Blue just lives to get fucked and the fact that Nick and Blue have roleplayed before was an added bonus. No shyness, no apprehension. Just hedonistic daddy/son fucking at it’s finest. If you’re into intergenerational sex you’re going to love Nick and his “Hungboy Blue.”

Daddy/Son Roleplay With Nick Moretti and Blue Bailey

15Feb/120

Good Review By The Best Porn

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Lavender Lounge got another good review, this time from a site called TheBestPorn.com.

This is a dedicated studio collection with lots of hardcore guy/guy including some fisting and kinky fetish play as well. There are some solo guy posing and masturbation shoots which add further variety. Kliem does describe the guys featured here as burly bears, punks, and hunks and I think that’s an accurate assessment of the men he features. The collection includes about an equal amount of video scenes and photo sets.

It gave the site a 75 out of 100, with the only real criticism that the site needs more content. Not a problem! There are lots more scenes already shot and just waiting to be edited and added to the site. And just this morning I set up a shoot with a new model I haven’t worked with yet, and I think you’re really going to like him!

13Feb/120

Valentine Special! Half Off!

Valentine Special!

One day only special for Valentines – get half off a membership to Lavender Lounge!