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22Feb/120

kevin sessums on andy… and brigid



kevin sessums

Andy Warhol died on this date in 1987. I was then the Executive Editor of his Interview magazine and will never forget that day as long as I live. It was over a weekend – a Sunday i think – and I had been out all day and my neighbor came to his door when he heard me turning my key. “You’re boss died today,” he said. I gasped and ran to my little portable black and white TV I kept on the floor in my six-floor walk up on Bleecker and Sixth Avenue and plugged it in and watched the news reports. Later that week I found myself serving as an usher at his funeral at St. Patrick’s Cathedral.

He was very sweet to me during my days at Interview and he and his best friend, Brigid Berlin, kind of brought me under their collective wings when I first started working there. The daughter of the head of Hearst, she was once known as Brigid Polk during the early Factory days because she would poke herself with needles full of amphetamines in Andy’s early movies. But she had already sobered up when I arrived and she was more of the grown-up Hearst heiress who literally tended to her knitting all day long as she sat being he receptionist on the art side of the Factory which at that point was located in an old Con Ed building in the 30s just west of 5th Avenue. I’d go over to Brigid in the morning and feed her pugs Fame and Fortune bits of my cranberry muffin and dish with her and Andy and have a few giggles like in the clip below.

After Andy’s death, I interviewed Brigid for an issue of Interview with Andy on the cover that coincided with his retrospective at MoMA. It is one of the best interviews I’ve ever done and I am including it in my next book in the chapter titled The Factory Worker. Here is how that long rambling interview with Brigid ends:

KS: Did you always have a job at the Factory or did you just hang out?

BB: The job part sort of started at 860 Broadway. I never went every day to Union Square. I got involved when Interview started up. But I think Interview might have begun upstairs at Union Square originally. You know, Andy always said he started Interview for me. Because of Daddy. He wanted to have his own Hearst empire.

KS: Why do you think Andy always had to have people around him at the Factories.

BB; Because that was part of his art. He had to be stimulated by other people. He used to walk through here every day going, “What am I going to do, Brigid? I need some ideas. I can’t think of any art to do. Everybody else is doing such great things. I’m doing awful stuff.” And I’d say, “You gotta pay me for my ideas, Andy.” Then it would be, “Brig, when is your mother going to have her portrait done by me?” And I’d say, “Andy, my mother would never have her portrait done by you. I don’t want a portrait by you. I can’t stand them. I wouldn’t have one of your portraits hanging on my wall if you paid me a million dollars!” Maybe that’s why we were so close, because I used to tell him the truth. I never liked his art! He used to offer his art to me for Christmas, and I told him I’d rather he get me a washing machine and dryer. And he did! Wasn’t I a fool?

KS: Forget about the material things. What sort of emotional sustenance did Andy’s friendship give you over the years?

BB: He just understood. If I was drinking and doing speed, he understood. If I was going to me A.A. meetings, as I do now, he understood. You know, he always wanted to write a book on me. All that taping he did of me all those years was the research he was doing for my life story. So, in a way, I’m really doing my book now for him. I don’t know. What can you call something that you really, really love., that you have near you every single solitary day, but that you you’re not even aware of? Some people can can be your best friends and you don’t see them all the time, but I saw Andy practically every day for over twenty years. It’s ironic – it’s hard to describe because in reality there was no mystery in it. It was all so comfortable. If I didn’t still come to the Factory every day I’d probably feel very lonely. I was just thinking this morning when I got to the Factory – I get here pretty early – how Andy used to call me around 8:30 knowing I was usually alone in the place. Sometimes I really do miss him. He’d call up – especially at 860 Broadway – and say, “Gee, Brig, what’s new? Who’s called?” And I’d say, “Nobody’s called, Andy.” And he’d say again, “What’s new?” I’d say, “Nothing’s new.” What’s new?” “Nothing’s new.” “What’s new?” “Nothing.”

22Feb/120

chewy & leia (via nick drake)

nick drake

22Feb/120

oh my goddess, i just wet my panties

21Feb/120

Sweet Sue and Her Society Syncopaters


via what makes the pie shops tick?

19Feb/120

kenneth marlow MR. MADAME a great novel of the gay life


photos via queer music heritage & salmon gutter

“I met Kenneth Marlow in 1972 when he was in the process of becoming Kate Marlowe. He threw a fundraising Big Band dance at which Sally Rand (then 70) performed her famous Fan Dance under a VERY DIM blue bulb. He called the evening “The Ball to End All Balls.” When I interviewed her later (Kate) she told me she’d grown up in a whorehouse in Winnemucca, Nevada. I’m not at all sure if that was true but it was a fascinating detail, so I appropriated it for Anna Madrigal in “Tales of the City”- armistead maupin

Advertising circular for Mr. Madam Collection Victor Minx:

Kenneth Marlow was an active homosexual, a female impersonator, a male whore in an all femaie cathouse and the “madam” of a homosexual whorehouse that “serviced” an exclusive Hollywood clientele. He was kept in sexual bondage by the Mafia and escaped. He was drafted into the army and raped by fourteen men. He was a mark for every form of sexual atrocity, the lumberjack’s darling, the sailor’s pet, the “bar girl” who could be had. Mr. Madam is… THE WORLD’S MOST INTERESTING MAN!

18Feb/120

crazy disturbing & amusingly AWESOME shit @ THE CABINET OF PHOTOGRAPHIC CURIOUSITIES


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18Feb/120

SEX ENGINE PEOPLE (134 pics)

16Feb/120

11 sweet boy pics @ EY! MEGA*TEEN tumblr

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15Feb/120

African-American Male Couples Through The Years: A Photographic Essay

HUFFPOST:

The following essay and stunning photographs come to HuffPost Gay Voices courtesy of Trent Kelley, a Texas-based playwright. Kelley, who says he collected most of the photographs on eBay, in flea markets and in estate sales, writes:

Afro American same-sex loving gay men who where coupled with one another in the distant past walked the streets, ate at the dinner tables, and generally participated in their larger ethnic community out in the open, their relationships known only to those who were consequential to their everyday lives. In this respect, they were out in the open but hidden to those who didn’t know about their sexual proclivities. Hence, the title of this series of pictures dating from the mid 19th century to the late 20th century is “Hidden in the Open: A Photographic Essay of Afro-American Male Couples.”

Some of these images are sure to depict gay couples, whereas others may not. The end result is speculative at best, for want in applying a label. Not every gesture articulated between these men is an indication of male-to-male intimacies. Assuredly, what all the photographs have in common are signs of Afro-American male affection and love that were recorded for posterity without fear and shame. Friendships where men often wrote romantically to one another, walked arm in arm were not uncommon to straight and gay men alike during the 19th and early 20th centuries. Depending on economic situation, many even slept together and this may have precluded or included physical intimacy between the sheets.

But there were past generations of Afro American gay men who lived and love bravely. They exist in these photographs. Like today’s gay male of African descent, the majority of them were never victims who whined nor required rescuing. Their presence here defy a lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community often wanting to make them an impotent footnote absent of any self-empowerment within gay culture and those vocally homophobic pockets within a black community wanting to write these men out of the narrative to Afro-American history.

WATCH THE SLIDE SHOW HERE!

CHECK OUT KELLEY’S FLICKR COLLECTION HERE!

Watch Trent Kelley Interview After The Jump

14Feb/120

sissydude loves robbie banfitch

“Sarcasm with a dash of whimsy, served over shredded intellect. Whiskey-slinging film nerd. Seeker of gills and wings.”

Robbie Banfitch is a very funny & clever fellow … he’s also super sexy. Watch these three videos and see if you fall in love with him as much as I.

MORE SOME TIPS FOR LIFE’S HERE!

Learn how be optimistic about certain rejection at the bar (Valentine’s Day or every fucking day).

You want to know what love is? Let Robbie show you!

“Watch as I demonstrate how to successfully convert a supposed “homosexual” into a God-fearing, righteous heterosexual. This technique works wonders for those believing they were “born that way”.”

14Feb/120

james bidgood valentine images

13Feb/120

adele in vogue us (by mert & marcus)


more images here!

11Feb/120

andy warhol eats a hamburger

11Feb/120

romeo & juliet (1968)

11Feb/120

al parker is love

edited SFW version after the jump!

6Feb/120

Merv Griffin “punk” fashion show early 80′s with Eva Gabor & Nina Blanchard (3 parts)

6Feb/120

tebow keller


“In honor of America’s favorite pass-time, I concluded my recent porn shoot for Cocksuremen.com with an homage to the Denver Bronco’s virgin quarterback Tim Tebow, whose propensity for kneeling in prayer on the football field has sparked its own internet meme.” - Colby Keller @ BIG SHOE DIARIES

5Feb/120

CLASSIC!!! the late great tandi iman dupree… better than any half-time show!

3Feb/120

“bad girls” – m.i.a.

3Feb/120

Woman Who Made Fun Of American Apparel Contest Wins, American Apparel Act Like A Bunch Of Babies

Via BUZZfeed

Nancy Upton, the gorgeous prankster who satirized American Apparel’s condescending search for a plus-sized model with smutty and silly overindulgence photos, actually won the online contest! Then American Apparel acted all American Apparel and wouldn’t recognize her victory, even though she had far and away the most votes. Here are some more of the photos that lampooned the contest and won the hearts of online voters.

American Apparel’s Pissy Response To Nancy Upton, In Part… after the jump!

“It’s a shame that your project attempts to discredit the positive intentions of our challenge based on your personal distaste for our use of light-hearted language, and that “bootylicous” was too much for you to handle. While we may be a bit TOO inspired by Beyoncé, and do have a tendency to occasionally go pun-crazy, we try not to take ourselves too seriously around here. I wonder if you had taken just a moment to imagine that this campaign could actually be well intentioned, and that my team and I are not out to offend and insult women, would you have still behaved in the same way, mocking the confident and excited participants who put themselves out there?” … “Oh—and regarding winning the contest, while you were clearly the popular choice, we have decided to award the prizes to other contestants that we feel truly exemplify the idea of beauty inside and out, and whom we will be proud to have representing our company.”