Re-Design 2011 – Vote For Favorite
While Lavender Lounge is in the process of being re-designed, I received three potential versions. Please add comments if you have a preference. I am leaning toward the third version as it is more representational of the content.
Tober Brandt – Crossdressing!
I did a shoot recently with gay porn superstar Tober Brandt for Muscle Bear Cub. We did all the usual butch poses and such, but I wanted to do some photo experiments, too. I decided to play with a little genderfuck cross dressing with him where I put him in some slightly feminine clothes but still with some elements of masculinity.
Tober Brandt is fearless and has no problem taking creative risks. He brought a pile of fun outfits, including some homemade "Steam Punk" inspired glasses and a Bowler hat. He added some red lace panties, severe spike heeled boots, and we topped it off with him smoking a fat cigar and scowling at the camera.
It is cross dressing in the traditional sense? No, too butch. Have you seen another gay porn star pose like this? Certainly not! That's why the Lavender Lounge's slogan is, "It's Porn Different!"
I put a gallery of Tober Brandt in his dainties in the VIP Room of Lavender Lounge, but if you get a VIP Membership, you can use the same passwords to see Tober's more butch photos over at Muscle Bear Cub.
TOBER BRANDT AT MUSCLE BEAR CUB - SAMPLE VIDEO - MORE TOBER BRANDT
Please comment below, especially if you think putting a hot guy in drag is a travesty. Art should be controversial, don't you think?
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Photo Shoot For Saviour Soul
I do the poster design for a monthly club called "Saviour Soul". Last month we held a "Sexy Saviour" Contest to find models for upcoming posters. Here are two of the best. What do you think?
Leslie Ann Warren Makes A Grand Entrance
I shot this video of the the Leslie Ann Warren Tribute at the Castro Theatre this past Valentine's Day. I shot the video of Leslie Ann Warren's grand entrance, and the producer, Marc Huestis, put together this video. It combined clips from her famous movies, and the autograph signing before the show.
Don't miss the next big event at the Castro, Justin Bond with a live orchestra performing his new album. Saturday, April 9.Click here for tickets.
Feedback About Gay Porn Stars In Drag
I got this email feedback about my recent shoot with gay porn star Josh West:
Josh West is quite the hunk, but dressing him up in a Madonna type 80's corset makes one want to barf. It's not attraction but a REAL BIG turn off! Instead of attracting people you are pushing them away.
I understand where he is coming from, and I realize I am taking a big risk with this kind of experimentation. But there are a million gay porn scenes shot every day and it's really hard to distinguish yourself from every other fucking porn site out there. People have become so jaded about everything in pop culture, especially adult media, it's impossible to shock anyone anymore. We've seen it all.
If you'll notice, I am not only challenging the idea of kind of fashion makes a man sexy, but I am also tweaking the Religious Right with sacrilegious images as well. I can't WAIT for feedback from the krazy kkkristians!
Keeping in mind that seeing sexy, manly men in drag is possibly a turn-off, I've taken the precaution to put the more masculine shots in the VIP Room of Muscle Bear Cub, and kept the more controversial photos for Lavender Lounge. If you are a VIP Member, you get access to both.
Please leave your comments below.
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I Can Quit Anytime I Want
Let's just add another addiction to our lives, okay? How much time do you spend with Facebook? It's easy to get addicted. I can't wait for the next generation of hipsters to be totally anti-social networking.
And while we're discussing word play, doesn't obsessive social networking lead to ANTI-social behavior?
Get My Money Back – Cazwell
Who needs gay porn when you can watch this?! Fucking sexy, sexy, sexy.
<3 Cazwell!
Nosy Neighbor Shuts Down Important Music Nightclub

Slim's is a long-running and important music venue in San Francisco's South of Market district. It was opened by musician and bar owner Boz Skaggs in the 1980's and has hosted every important musical act on their way up. Apparently one complaint from a nosy neighbor was enough to shut down the club temporarily. The same thing has happened for years with gay bars like the Hole In The Wall, the My Place and the Eagle. Below is the link to the story and my letter to the cunt who started it.
Slim's Shut Down Because of Neighbor Complaint - Amoeba Blog
March 22, 2011
Jeanmarie Guenot
45 Jupiter #3
San Francisco, CA 94103
Dear Jeanmarie,
I understand that you are responsible for the temporary closing of Slim's. I am writing to encourage you to stop your selfish campaign against nightlife in SOMA.
I have lived in San Francisco for 30 years, and 10 of those years have been right here in SOMA. The reason why I chose to buy a home in this neighborhood is specifically because of the active nightlife. I paid $800,000 for a house that is essentially similar to a single-wide mobile home. I pay almost $10,000 in property taxes every year to live in this neighborhood. That may sound crazy, but in real estate, it's all about location, location, location.
Why do I make so many sacrifices to live in this expensive and challenging neighborhood? Because there are so few places in this world that have the kind of energy and creative spirit you find here. Except for very few unique places in the world like SOMA, the entire rest of the world is designated as "kid friendly" or "quiet and restful". I am an adult and I like to do adult things. I do not want to live in a "kid friendly" neighborhood, nor do I want to live in a bland retirement village.
I live a few steps from the End Up on one side, 1015 Folsom on the other, and an Elementary school in between. I work at home all day, and I can attest that the noise from the school far exceeds any nightclub in this city. I would much prefer a nightclub next to me than a school.
Slims is a professionally managed, long-running, successful and vitally important music venue in an era when the number of places to hear live music has dwindled significantly. What possible benefit to yourself or the community could you derive from actively pursuing the demise of nightclub that has become such an institution?
Were you so naive that you didn't know SOMA was an entertainment center before you moved here? What exactly did you think this neighborhood was when you moved here? If noise from nightclubs bothers you, I would suggest that your efforts are better directed at moving yourself to a quieter place far from San Francisco. If you persist in antagonizing the entertainment business in SOMA, you better be ready for battle. We know where you live.
Sincerely,
Mark Kliem
Matthew Cums On A Bible
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Are you shocked yet?
I bet you thought you'd everything in gay porn, right? Have you seen this before? A guy cumming on a bible? You'll see it ONLY at Lavender Lounge - where else?!
I did a shoot with a cute little kinky twink named Matthew White a few weeks ago, and had him do all kinds of weird things on camera. For the big finale, I had him cum on a bible. (The lower case "b" is on purpose, btw.)
He had no problem whatsoever doing it, despite threats of eternal damnation, but then again, practically everything we do every day could send us straight to hell for some reason.
If you have something to comment about the whether that is appropriate or not, please add your comments. I can't WAIT for the krazy kristians to get ahold of this video!
You can see the whole scene in the VIP Room of Lavender Lounge.
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Saviour Soul – March 5
I did the poster for this and Lavender Lounge is a sponsor.
Saviour Soul - a monthly club at the Powerhouse in San Francisco by Anna Conda and Sister Mary Ralph. Next event is Saturday, March 5, 4-8 pm. Drink Specials, raffle, Jello Shots and outrageous drag show!
Leather Daddy Photos
A while back I had the pleasure of doing a photo shoot with a leather daddy that allowed me to experiment with props, costumes and bondage gear. (See Experiments In Bondage.)
It was a fun shoot and I am very proud of the results. Become a VIP Member to see Greg in leather, chains, jock strap, rope bondage, and some experiments with suspension. It was all done in the name of art, not porn, so I think you might enjoy a break from the standard porn formula.
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Getting Artsy With Bondage
As an artist, this is one of my favorite series of erotic photos I've shot (See Experiments In Bondage.) I kinda didn't know what I was doing, but I was very pleased with the results, and when you get your VIP Membership and look at the gallery (Greg Bruce in the SOLOS category) I think you'll enjoy it, too. Everything just fit together, good model, interesting location, fun props and sharp photos.
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Hairy Daddy Poses In Bondage
Here's another teaser from a gallery I just added of hairy daddy Greg Bruce that I wrote about the other day. (See Experiments In Bondage.) One of he outfits we dressed him in was this red-neck jumpsuit to make him look like he's been working on old cars all day. Become a VIP Member and see the whole gallery of creative bondage photos.
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Experiments in Bondage
I just added a gallery to the VIP Room of a model I shot a while back named Greg Bruce. (VIP Members can find it in SOLOS.) At the time, I was still shooting with a 35mm film camera and I had just bought a second-hand lighting system, so I was anxious to experiment.
A friend of mine was really good at picking up men online and was thrilled at the opportunity to help with a real porn shoot. (After he found out how slow and laborious it was to shoot porn, he lost interest, but that's another story...) He arranged to have a hot daddy pose for us, so I brought my equipment and set it up.
Greg was up for anything we suggested to him, but since I wasn't paying him, I was kind of afraid to ask for too much. Foolish me, I could have really exploited the opportunity, but in the end I was very proud of the results. From the beginning, it wasn't supposed to be a traditional, formulaic porn shoot, i.e. SUCK, RIM, FUCK, CUM. We all approached it as a creative collaboration where we each suggested ideas and let the project evolve.
Greg has a fetish that focuses on just one part of his body - his belly. He loves to rub it, slap it, shave it, torture it, and other things that were even too bizarre for me to allow that day.
My friend's contribution was to dress Greg up in cute outfits and tie him up in elaborate bondage. They both loved the actual process of the attaching ropes, chains, and paraphernalia, but I just went along with it.
The final result of this shoot is 82 stunning erotic portraits with a hairy, sinewy hunk daddy. Become a VIP Member and see the whole photo session in the MEMBERS ONLY VIP ROOM.
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Noel Noir – Un-Holiday Party at YBCA
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I will be in a fashion show during this event - Project Nunway!
On December 10, don your thrift store best for the people's winter ball and we shall bedeck the holidays in black! Noël Noir is a celebration of the Bay Area's love of the strange and the beautiful—for art and culture geeks, decompressed burners, untenured professors, hippy futurists, the funemployed, poly gamers, queerdos and anyone who wants to take a picture. More Tim Burton than Frank Capra, Noël Noir will whisk you away into the season's seamier (and sexier!) underbelly.
Experience the holidays the YBCA way—with tongue firmly planted in cheek and cocktails delicately balanced in hand.
See you on the black carpet at Noël Noir!
Nova – Hot Mess Faerie Punk
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Nova is a popular guy around the club scene here in San Francisco. I shot this video a few years ago and finally got around to editing it. It's nice to go back and re-look at old footage. Though I was more interested in practicing my still photography at the time, I did get some beautiful footage that day.
Nova had the time of his life posing for the camera in front of a wall of mirrors at my old studio. He brought a trunk load of clothes and accessories and we chatted about how much he loves playing "dress-up". He really got into staring deep into his own image and jerking off to himself. (Come on, you've done it, too, don't kid yourself!).
For the full-length video in the VIP Room, I really spent more time than I usually do editing it. And why not? I am an artist, dammit! The shoot turned out to be fun, colorful and something I am proud of creating all on my own. This footage is not available anywhere else, and I think it's damn good. Wait till you see the still photos that go along with the video!
I made a second preview video from this session with Nova that I will be posting here in a few days. That boys shot his load farther than any other model I've worked with, and the next preview shows the results. But you don't have to wait to see it if you join now!
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Michaelangelo Was Gay, Lest We Forget

It's pretty common knowledge that Michaelangelo was gay. Why do you think it was called the Sissytine Chapel?
WTF File – Please Shield Your Eyes, Kids

Oh lordy, I did NOT need to see Andy in ripped underwear. However, you need to see it.
Now you can't un-see it.
Lavender Lounge Listed in Cybersocket’s Best Blogs
Cybersocket Magazine has been running a yearly column called "Our Favorite Gay Porn Blogs" since they first began publishing. I have been blogging since 2003, and every year I check to see if I made Cybersocket's list. Sometimes I'm disappointed, but this year I made it and they even used my logo!
"Because they're free and easy to create and maintain, blogging has become the most efficient way to reach out and touch someone. Whatever the agenda - whether to inform, entertain, promote, or all of the above - blogging is now an essential marketing tool. Blogs represent one of the easiest ways to communicate ideas instantly to a worldwide audience and no industry had embraced them as heartily as the porn world."
"Since 1995, San Francisco-based Lavender Lounge has been sending its smutty gay paparazzi to cover outdoor festivals, hip bars and nightclubs, and gay porn star gatherings. The talented writers add a fun edge to their coverage of gay porn culture, making it one of our all-time favorites."





























